1.      snuggle and share bed space, but give room and space

2.      talk about what matters

3.      treat every moment like a first date - be ideal

4.      if you are always holding hands, wedding rings are redundant

5.      listen

6.      butt out of their business - their family is their business, their friends are their business

7.      argue, but keep the argument specific and argue constructively

8.      care

9.      joke around

10.    love and make love